My girlfriend is very abusive. She goes out with her friends after work, comes home at all hours, drunk and in the mood for a fight. Often she will demand sex and then mock me when I am unable to perform. She gets into a fits of rage and becomes violent and many times I have had to call in sick, avoiding work out of embarrassment. Please tell me what should I do. I am at my wits end.

B.Chass

DR replies –

There is a saying, “You strike a woman, you strike a rock.”

But what happens when you strike a woman with a rock? Mostly, you will get that rock-on-rock clack clack sound but in some cases, when the two rocks in question are of a certain type, usually an impure form of quartz with an exceedingly fine grain, you may get sparks. From sparks come fire. Fire burns things. I think you will find your answer right there.